College girlfriend cheated

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I just found out my wife, then girlfriend, had gone out with a guy on summer break from college. This was 20 years ago and she just decided to tell me nonchalantly and “nothing happened”.
It feels like it happened last night. We have a great marriage and we love each other very much. I don’t know what to do to alleviate the pain. 
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Replied by sal9396 on topic College girlfriend cheated

Take a deep breath, relax and think about this in the context of 20 years. She went on a date, 20 years ago, before you were married, and nothing happened.
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Replied by Betrayed Wife on topic College girlfriend cheated

I'm sorry, but it was 20 years ago. She went out with a guy but didn't do anything. She was an immature college student. If she's been faithful to you throughout your marriage and you have this wonderful relationship, put it past you. It was a youthful indiscretion.
It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness -- ancient proverb.
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Replied by diggity11 on topic College girlfriend cheated

If nothing truly happen then I wouldn’t worry about . It could be worse as my wife then girlfriend told me about her long term affair 10 years ago. It feels like yesterday and I am sure  everything happen. 
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