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Replied by Taffy on topic CHEATERS GUIDE TO RECOVERY

Where do I go from here? This is the second time my boyfriend has cheated on me with the same person. this time it has severely hurt me. We have not spoken about it. But he has promised me he wont contact her. Now I do know if he does I will be leaving this time. I have not really recuperated from the affair but I do know I spend some time crying. I cant be living like this. I do know I am starting to make plans to do things with out him and then most of the times I do not go through with it. What do I need from the relationship I am not sure. But I do know I have asked to do things with him and they do not occur. I finally decided to write on here because I am seeing him be happy texting other people and spending time with guy friends while I work to support us both. What ever I decide to do I plan on doing it slowly and start being on my own even if means walking on the beach on my own. I need some support from the group in how to deal with my emotions and what to discuss with my significant other. Oh by the way he promised me he will take me to the beach. I don't think it will ever happen. He has limited his time in being with me.
"However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the 'right' person, because he or she is simply a mirror of who you are inside."-Deepak Chopra
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Replied by H0pe on topic CHEATERS GUIDE TO RECOVERY

I just wish he showed some remorse for his actions. He never apologized. In fact, he told me I was exaggerating things. It is NOT okay to join Plenty of Fish and look at a dozen women in one night, and hardcore porn on MyFreeCams? No way! Geez I'm mad!
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