My husband and I have been like roommates for a long time. He started an affair a few months ago - I didn’t know obviously - and soon after, I was diagnosed with early stage breast cancer. He continued his affair throughout my treatment, I had no clue. He’s not abusive or mean, but he hasn’t been as supportive as he should have been. And it wasn’t the situation, that’s just how he is. I found out after he had ended it (it lasted 8 months) when the other woman contacted me to tell me. I know he feels horrible, but he still hasn’t really done anything to make it up to me. I feel like such a cliché.